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Post by turtlechick1886 on Oct 3, 2018 23:22:24 GMT
So I would like to start with the fact that my spouse and I have been together for six years and married for three. We have been in an open relationship for the whole time ( meaning if we sleep with someone else just disclose it and all is well). So in this time I determine my spouse is not into sex. He can talk it but he is not motivated by it nor does he think it is important. I am, unfortunately, in need of regular sexual contact. So I bring up polyamory as I am much more comfortable in a relationship than I am with casual encounters. He seems fine with it in theory but if I date someone in a serious polyamory way will this destroy my marriage with my spouse? Polyamory is something I need and crave but will my spouse divorce me if or when I try to embrace this lifestyle? I am personally bisexual and open to the gender of the additional partner, but it seems like a lot lot to ask or expect. Anyway I have yet to engage in this community due to my doubts, but through extensive research I think this is the best solution for the relationship. Thoughts? L
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